holding onto the past

From a recent discussion:

" ~AmaltheaTwin:...think I just wished sometimes tat I could do hs over again, least with an earlier opening to the real me. but then again, I wouldnt be the person I am today..conflict on basics
~timmytyrant: ah
~timmytyrant: well the first thing you need to do i think is accept you cant do hs again even if it wouldnt change who you are
~timmytyrant: your dwelling dear
~AmaltheaTwin: lol, guess so
~timmytyrant: and i for one love ginya the way she is and i wish you could just accept that things happend in your past that you may not be proud of but you cant change them. once you do that you will be able to move on and advance
~AmaltheaTwin: *hugs* awe tiff, love you too
~timmytyrant: -hugs back-
~AmaltheaTwin : so..holding onto the past is like..trying to hold the waterfall from falling and continueing on its way down to the ocean..which is impossible to stop a waterfall..
~timmytyrant: it not impossible its just a very very bad idea
~AmaltheaTwin: lol, thank tiff
~AmaltheaTwin: I think you just popped the evil bubble I had with words of truth
~timmytyrant: well its not you can hold on to the past and eventualy you can convince yourself that it happend a different way that doesnt mean its a good idea
~timmytyrant: your welcome
~AmaltheaTwin: not good, cus it brings depression, guilt and sickens the mind and soul
~timmytyrant: yep like i said not impposible just a bad idea
~AmaltheaTwin: lol
~AmaltheaTwin: guess only water benders could ever make the waterfall stop from falling down
~timmytyrant: no you can dry up the river and the water wont fall will it
~AmaltheaTwin: but that be killing the waterfall...as to kill the person..but wat I was going to go on with the reference, that waterfalls wont be held in place without water benders, and friends will always be there to help one let go of the past. like you have, will and is :-D
~AmaltheaTwin: thanks*hug*
~timmytyrant: hm i like yours better -hugs-
~timmytyrant: im glad you got that sorted out
~AmaltheaTwin: ditto "

The feeling was resolved and put to rest..and here be the drawing